Christmas Blogging Challenge- My Favorite Christmas Story

Today’s blog challenge is writing my favorite Christmas story. I am trying to think back and decide if it was the year I received my first Cabbage Patch doll? I can’t forget the Christmas when my cousins and I moved the clocks up so we could open our presents?  Or the first Christmas with my oldest, Madison? It could be my first Christmas with my husband. I have so many great memories of Christmas, but two years ago, the meaning of Christmas was changed. My middle daughter, Mallorie, was diagnosed with leukemia on December 15th, 2013.

I can remember the craziness and fear during that time. She was admitted into the hospital. We wanted so badly to be out by Christmas eve. So of many wonderful friends brought her a Christmas tree. We were so blessed, blessed beyond our wildest dreams. We did get our wish and got dismissed on Christmas eve. We came home after 10 days of being in the hospital. Mallorie was so sick and looked like she was wasting away. It really but things into perspective.

We didn’t have our Christmas ham. We didn’t have family over. We didn’t get our shopping done. However, Mallorie did have enough energy to build a gingerbread house with her brother. By New Year’s Eve she was back in the hospital.  It totally sucked.Christmas

The reason why this is my favorite Christmas story is that Christmas reminded me that the presents, ham and parties aren’t what makes the season merry. It is being together, as a family, loving and cherishing each other. It is a time for reflection and peace. And the most important, making sure you got your life square in the eyes of God. This will be the first Christmas since her diagnoses that it will actually feel like an “ordinary” holiday. There will be the ham, family and presents. I am really looking forward to it.


If you would like to write in the 12 Days of Christmas, you can find the rules here.

12 Days Of Christmas Blogging

Happy Thanksgiving

I will enter His gates with thanksgiving in my heart;
I will enter His courts with praise.
I will say this is the day that the Lord has made.
I will rejoice for He has made me glad.
He has made me glad, He has made me glad,
I will rejoice for He has made me glad.
He has made me glad, He has made me glad,
I will rejoice for He has made me glad.

Today my husband, son, and I are celebrating Thanksgiving. Even though the girls are at their dads, the big kids have other things going on, and my family won’t be here, I am very thankful for all the blessings God has given me.


Dee Dee

Not Your Ordinary Gratitude Post

Now that Halloween has come and gone, we can all start to get in the spirit of giving. I love this time of year. There are so many things I look forward to when the leaves change from green to the bright colors of orange, yellow and red, when the wind shifts ever so dramatically out of the North and the mornings are chilly enough for a jacket. Here are a list of a few things I enjoy during the fall.

  1. Pumpkin spice donuts and coffees. Heck, pumpkin spice anything.
  2. Sweatshirts.
  3. McDonalds brings back the McRib. (No judging.)
  4. Football.
  5. Daylight Savings Time. (It’s dark by 6 p.m. and I am ready for bed by 6:30 p.m.)
  6. Wearing boots.

Some are thankful for family and friends. Many are thankful for God.

This season is the sign the year is coming to an end, you realize you didn’t accomplish any of your New Year’s Resolutions and old man winter is going to be rearing his ugly head. Well, that’s what I think anyway. I am not hating on Fall, actually, it is my favorite time of year. There is an excitement in air which I have always enjoyed. It also makes me remember all I am thankful for. Tonight as I was Facebook stalking people, I noticed many posting the 30 Days of Thankfulness. I do like reading what my friends are most thankful for. Some are thankful for family and friends. Many are thankful for God. Personally, I am thankful for the McRib. Did I mention it is back?

It’s only when I dig out my Broncos hoodie and hang the Fall wreath on my door that I begin to feel appreciation and gratefulness.

In the past I have participated in posting on social media something I am thankful for each day during the month of November. I think it is a great way to appreciate others and the gifts God has given, but I couldn’t help but start to kick myself for not being more thankful through the year. I started thinking why do I not show thanks and feel thankful each and every day? I have blessings given to me all the time. I am given opportunities to show gratitude to others when I walk out my front door. But do I? Nope. It’s only when I dig out my Broncos hoodie and hang the Fall wreath on my door that I begin to feel appreciation and gratefulness. And for me, I think that is a damn shame.

I started digging around on the internet to see if I could find any statics of what Americans are most grateful for. I found a list of nine things we, as Americans, are grateful for from a 2013 survey conducted by International Business Times. Here is what they discovered. Cue drumroll.

  1. Health.
  2. Family relationships.
  3. Technology makes it easy to stay in touch with family and friends.
  4. Good technology is easily accessible.
  5. Personal economic situation.
  6. Personal work situation.
  7. It is safe to walk in the streets.
  8. The way people treat one another.
  9. The economic situation in the US.

Everyone’s list is different and is never complete.

These are all things we should be thankful for, I guess? Everyone’s list is different and is never complete. When I read that list, I tried to relate my blessings to each one of the nine answers. I could think of something for each of them, but I think my list would go like this.

  1. God.
  2. Family.
  3. Laughter.
  4. Health.
  5. Freedom.
  6. Job.
  7. Shelter.
  8. Happiness.
  9. McRibs. (Ok, ok. I’ll stop.)

One thing to be thankful for is having underwear.

The point I am trying to make is I wish I kept the attitude of gratitude with me every single day, in every season, 365 days a year. But just being real here, I don’t. There are days, even weeks, I feel I have nothing to appreciate. I walk around playing the victim card, thinking my life sucks. How messed up is that? In reality, it’s not. We live in a world where we struggle to make ends meet, rush around to get things done and barely have enough time left to make sure we change our underwear. One thing to be thankful for is having underwear.

As the month of November kicks off, embrace the season of giving. Let the spirit of appreciation feel you full until its spills out of your eyeballs. However, don’t let it dry out on January 1. Try to keep your blessings in the front of your mind all year long. Even on the days you think you have nothing to be thankful for. For me, it will be a challenge that is for sure. Here are some ideas to help motivate you to see the goodness in every day. Side note, apparently I am on a “list” kick at the moment.

  1. Showers.
  2. Having exact change.
  3. Colors.
  4. Pillows.
  5. Salt.
  6. Air conditioning.
  7. Good hair days.
  8. Music.
  9. Hitting every green light when you are running late.
  10. Toilet paper.

Remember there is a difference between being thankful for things and being a thankful person. When we start to realize the blessings in our daily routine, the happier we become. I think Oprah said it best, “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you’ll never, ever have enough.”

I would love to hear what you are thankful for. Leave a comment and let me know. It would totally make my day!